The Ducote Family

Monday, August 31, 2015

Life Changer

On July 1st, Rich received a call that definitely is going to change our lives.  His boss called to say that the small possibility of a move to California became definite and that we could proceed immediately!  Rich received notice back in April that there was some reorganizing of his company taking place and there was a possibility that Texas may no longer be part of the west region, which he oversees, which would mean that he could be transferred to California.  We didn't say anything to anyone about the potential move because there were SO many things that had to fall into place for it to really happen and it seemed like such a long shot.  We really didn't think much of it during the 4 months because we really felt that it wasn't going to happen anytime soon-we had been hoping that eventually we'd end up on the west coast and had said that it would be nice to be settled there before Joseph began Kindergarten in 2016 but felt that even that date would probably not happen.  So, needless to say, we were definitely shocked when Rich received the call and that it was going to happen so fast.  Shocked, excited, sad...definitely bittersweet.  
It was almost 4 years to the exact day that we moved into our home at 26 E Deer River Circle.  The past 4 years have been so amazing.  Despite being in the middle of the country, a drive from a decent beach, a LONG drive from both sets of families and hotter summers than we care for, we have loved Texas, especially living in The Woodlands.  The Woodlands is such a special community and the friends that we have made here have made it all the more special and amazing.  We will miss our friends the most, but, here are a few other things that will definitely be missed:
Market Street, the trolley, all of the parks within walking distance and the accessibility of the rest of parks within The Woodlands, running the trails (especially with the double stroller), the splash pads, the pools, the races and events that The Woodlands hosts, the variety of restaurants, shopping, and entertainment all within our town...the list could go on and on!  
Baby boot camp:  this phenomenal organization has been such a blessing here.  Thanks to baby boot camp, I have formed such close friendships with amazing women and have been surrounded by ladies who want to inspire change and wellness through fitness, nutrition, community and personal growth.  I have loved being a client first and then an instructor with BBC and hope that this is just the beginning of my journey of changing lives through fitness and nutrition.
H-E-B:  I know it's crazy that the grocery store is at the top of my list but this is the world's best grocery store, especially the brand new one that opened up last October less than a mile from our house!  
We will also definitely miss the people of Texas.   I'll miss the sayings, "Y'all and Bless her heart," and seeing the lone star everywhere!  Texans definitely love their state and there is just something so special about the pride that Texans have. 
And, obviously, our sweet three kiddos have also made living in Texas so special.  We moved into our home when Joseph was just 6 months old so we have so many special memories here.  Our two precious girls were born in Texas, so many of all three of their firsts took place in our home, and our home is just filled of baby/toddler/preschooler love that was created here.  I could keep going on and on but the tears will be rolling down my cheeks so I'll just leave it at that I feel so blessed to have lived here and really begun our family here and the memories of these early years in our home will last a lifetime.
On July 18th our friends threw us a family going away party at Frey's Backyard Cafe which was a great restaurant with an awesome outdoor, fenced in space.  I don't think I saw Joseph or Ella the entire time as they were too busy playing with the rest of the crew in the backyard.  Well, they all did come sweaty and red cheeked to eat dinner and to have cake but that was it.  It was a great afternoon with our awesome family friends and we feel so fortunate to have become so close with such an awesome group of families.  
The kids
It is just crazy for me to think that when we all became friends, Joseph was only 9 months old!  Time has gone by so fast and so many special memories with these friends over the past four years.  
 
 
The girls had an awesome last Mom's night out for me on Thursday, July 30th.  We went to Local Pour, a new bar/restaurant in The Woodlands, and ended up taking over the dance floor!  So fun and I am so thankful for each and every one of these ladies and how they've touched my life.  
On the Friday night before we left we went to dinner with the Kramers, Enias, Killions and Byers one last time.  I was amazed at how well behaved all of the kids were especially after waiting almost a half hour to be seated.  We had a kids section of the table, a moms section with babies and the dads had their own table (not sure how that happened but it all worked out and was fun!) 
On August 1st, before we flew out later that day, we got together one last time (sniff, sniff) with the Kramers, Byers and Enias.  The kids and I walked/biked/ran over to Creekside Village Green and Val, Jamie, and Monica and their kids came to meet us there to play in the splash pad and for coffee.  SO hard to say goodbye to these special ladies but I am definitely a better person having known each of them and they have all touched my life so deeply.  
As we were driving to the airport that afternoon, I received this from our funny friend, Val, trying to sabotage the realtor's efforts of trying to sell the house!  
Our friends created a beautiful book for our family which will be treasured forever and we look forward to having many of the families come to San Diego to visit soon and I am so thankful for technology that makes them all seem not so far away.  Texas, you will always hold such a special place in our hearts.  

Monday, August 17, 2015

Ducote Reunion-Myrtle Beach

On July 22nd we headed to Atlanta to begin our reunion with the Ducote family.  Every other year we  try to get together with not only Rich's immediate family but also with Terri's siblings from New York.  It is always such a great time together and this year wasn't any different.  
We flew out in the afternoon and the flight was uneventful.  The iPad allows me to say that our crew are great fliers, I am not sure if I would say the same without it. The best thirty dollars spent all summer was downloading a few new shows for it which kept them totally entertained for the entire flight...that and some fun snacks! 
Due to a big storm that hit right after we landed, our luggage was delayed for over an hour to the baggage claim but thankfully we made it home in time to celebrate Nonna's birthday with her, Pop Pop and Aunt Katelyn.
Happy Birthday Nonna!
On Thursday we repacked what we had to unpack for the night's stay in Atlanta and then loaded up for the trip to Myrtle Beach. It was about a 5 1/2 hour trip, but for us ended up being close to 7 hours with a few bathroom stops and a longer lunch break to let everyone stretch their legs. Everyone did well but they were definitely crammed in the rental "mid-size" SUV. A little powdered donut from Daddy's stop at the gas station to sugar them up before sitting in the car for most of the day! 
The sugar wasn't a match for the late night before and for the movement and humming sound of the car. 
We arrived just in time for dinner and met up with everyone at the hotel bar/restaurant. It is so wonderful to see all of the family together and like no time has passed. The cousins picked up right where they left off from their last visit and it was so much fun catching up with aunts, uncles, brothers, cousins and anyone else that I forgot :) 

Uncle Gary entertaining the troops with fun hand games at the restaurant.
We all stayed on the Kingston Plantation in Myrlte Beach which was fabulous. There was an Embassy suites hotel as well as a variety of condos and townhouse to rent. We were in a 2 bedroom condo that worked out really well for our family. It was a little outdated but was spacious and it was super nice to have a full size kitchen as well as a washer and dryer! Rich and I kept saying that the unit was probably the place to be in the 90s with mirrors and gold trim everywhere but just hadn't been updated since then. It was clean though and obviously the kids didn't mind! Julia had fun checking out the fancy dining room chairs! 
After a great night of reuniting with everyone on Thursday, our Friday wasn't quite what we were hoping for.  Joseph slept in late and I walked into his room to check on him and noticed that his breathing was really labored as he slept. He seemed to have a slight cough on Thursday but was acting totally fine so didn't think much of it,  but when I watched him Friday morning I had a feeling that we were headed to find a doctor. He woke up shortly after and within ten minutes of him waking I was on the phone looking for an urgent care. After spending 4 hours between urgent care and then the emergency room, 3 breathing treatments and 1 steroid shot later he was as good as new, asking to go to the beach to meet up with his cousins. He hasn't been diagnosed with asthma but this was his second time that he ended up in the doctor's office like this (the first time was when he was a little over 2 years old) and the er doctor said to definitely keep an eye on it. Some things just trigger his breathing to become labored and once he starts going down that route he has a tough time getting out of it without help from meds. We have a nebulizer at home that I would use sometimes when he would get a cold to help open his lungs so we wouldn't end up in the er in the middle of the night and those treatments helped to keep it from getting any worse. The crazy thing about this incident though is that his cough immediately went away and honestly by 2 p.m. that afternoon he was swimming, running around and acting as if nothing had happened. We left with an inhaler and steroids if needed and we are just thankful that he was ok and that we didn't need to use them for the rest of the trip. 
So, after a quick rest back at the condo we made it out to the beach and it was nonstop fun for the rest of the trip!! 
Daddy and Ella came out of the water singing, "We like BIG waves, not itty bitty waves." Ella was having the time of her life!! I took her out jump over the waves after they came in and I told Rich after, with tears in my eyes, that being out there with her and hearing her laugh like crazy is what being a parent is all about. Thankfully he doesn't mind my cheesy cliches every once in awhile! 
Body boarding with Aunt Maria and Aunt Linda
On Saturday, July 25th, we spent the entire day bouncing from the beach, to the pool, to the water park area. It was such a great day hanging out with everyone and enjoying the sun and surf. 
We were laughing because a random little boy (in the black and green bathing suit) decided to join in on the fun. There was no sign of his parents anywhere and he just fit right in. 
He comes alive!! 
Watch out for Ella!!! 
Julia loves the beach!!! The water, the sand...all of it!
Both of the girls took naps poolside this afternoon. Tough life!
We moved to the pool for the later part of the afternoon and while the girls slept, the boys had a blast in the pool! 
On Saturday evening we headed back to the beach to get a cousin photo since we had everyone together for the first time ever! We were lucky enough to get a great one of all 9 grandchildren (all under the age of 7!)
Sam (3), John (5), Michael (7), Ella (2), Joseph (4), Julia (10 months), Max (3), Joey (11 months), and Annabelle (2)
Here are some of the fun outtakes!
Ella having way too much fun here! 
Gina and her sweet boys. Brian will finally be home in September after a 15 month deployment. 
Everyone LOVES Zach and Ryan (Rich's cousins)
Our sweet kiddos. If only Julia would have kept her navy blue headband on...oh well! 
The Florida crew-Amber, Max, Annabelle and Gary
Such a fun picture!
And, this is how we got the picture of the 9 grandkids all looking at the camera at the same time! Rich and his classic monkey! 
Sweet cousins! I wonder what they were talking about. 
After our beach photo session we headed up to the pool area for A LOT of pizza! Thanks so much to Pop Pop and Nonna for ordering dinner. It was such a nice, relaxed way to end the day, well, realistically it wasn't all that relaxed-I mean we did have 9 kids under the age of 7 but probably a bit more relaxed than being in a fancy restaurant! 
Terri and her daughters-in-law
Ella and Annabelle took a break from the pizza to bust a move on the dance floor. The dance floor was right by the bathrooms so every time during the day when Ella used the restroom she would want to watch the people dancing. They had employees who lead activities during the day there such as line dancing and hula hoop contests and was totally mesmerized by it all. Earlier that day her and I spent about 30 minutes watching the line dancing and dancing on the side. It was so cute! The girls had fun having the dance floor basically to themselves at night. 
After dinner we headed back to the beach for a tribute to Rich's aunt, Donna. Donna passed away in 1995, so they wanted to do something to remember her this year since it was twenty years ago. She was only 27 years old and was really close to Rich as he was 21 at the time of her death. Aunt Theresa put together a tribute with luminaries for her and all of the kids decorated the luminary bags and we went out to the beach to light them. Everyone said that she would have loved it and loved all of the kids being there. It was so special having Terri and all of her siblings there to do this for her. 
Telling "campfire" stories 
5 cousins snug on the back of the shuttle bus. So much fun riding on the shuttle and not in a carseat! 
The condo crew! Anne Marie and Gina had a condo together just a few places down from us so we'd meet up before heading to the beach and take the shuttle together. 
Everyone slept good on this trip! Ella and I had one bedroom, Joseph and Rich had the other bedroom and Julia had the bathroom! Julia slept great each night which makes vacations totally awesome when everyone sleeps through the night. Ella is a crazy sleeper which is why she slept with me and Rich snapped a few pictures when he would come in and check on us before he would leave for his early morning runs. 
We headed to church on Sunday morning but before we left the boys played for a bit in the grassy area behind the condos. 

The NY family along with Gary and Amber's crew left Sunday morning so it was a bit quieter on Sunday but we had a great day with the cousins that were left and Rich's brothers and Nonna and Pop Pop. After church we headed back to the beach for the rest of the day. 
Julia and her godfather, Uncle Greg
Trying to get the same picture that we have with Rich and Joseph and Ella. 
Naps on the beach in wet bathing suits are the sign of a good day! 
Even Joseph took a quick power nap in the car after the beach on our way to dinner that night.
We went to Broadway at the beach which had a ton of restaurants, shops, and games/activities. It was definitely touristy but a fun way to spend the night. We began the night with dinner at Key West Grille with Nonna, Pop Pop, Brent, Jeff, Greg, Anne Marie, Gina, and all of the cousins. It was quite the table but other than some spilled milk all went well! 
Checking out the pirate inf front of the restaurant. They are both saying "Yo ho ho" and every time Ella said it she would cross her arms in front of her. 
The parrot inside the restaurant was a nice distraction while waiting for our table. 
Love this picture from dinner! 
After a delicious dinner we roamed around the pier and ended up at the amusement park section. Fun Uncle Greg bought tickets for the kids to ride the slide and after that they were hooked. We stayed until almost 10:30! Julia fell asleep in the carrier, Ella just relaxed in the stroller but Joseph and a blast bouncing from one ride to the next with his cousins. 
Such a fun night! 
We hung out at the condos and the kids played until about noon on Monday and then made the drive back to Atlanta. We were there in time for dinner and it was extra special since Anne Marie, Sam and Joey also were there for the night. On Tuesday we were up bright and early to catch an 8 am flight back to Texas. The flight went great as the kids were all tired from the busy trip so they were pretty subdued on it. We had a great time with the Ducote crew and are already looking forward to our next reunion!