The Ducote Family

Saturday, August 20, 2016

First Week of Kindergarten!

Gosh, wasn't Joseph just born like yesterday?!?  How is he a full blown big kid kindergartner now?!?  I am still in disbelief and this whole transition is definitely bittersweet...but, we are SO proud of him and also so excited for what's to come (although definitely a huge part of me wants to keep him home with me all day still and longs for him to stay little forever-definitely the first week of kindergarten and pregnancy hormones talking!!)  
Joseph is attending Westwood Elementary, part of the distinguished Poway Unified School District, which if we end up staying in the same area he will attend the same middle and high school that I attended-definitely surreal!  
On Sunday, August 14th we received an automated phone call from his teacher...Mrs. Clark!!  I got tears in my eyes listening to the message.  Mrs. Clark (Stacey) is the sister in law of Michelle, one of my best friend's from high school! Small world and we are so thankful that Joseph is placed in her class!  Not only have other parents raved about her but it is also so nice for him (and myself!) to know that a familiar face will be taking care of him this first year.  Joseph has become buddies with her son who is also in Kindergarten-they have played a few times together in the past year when we have gotten together with Michelle while she is visiting her family here and Joseph has told me that they have been playing on the playground every day so that is great!
On Monday, August 15th we had his Kindergarten orientation where we all got to go into the classroom, meet the teacher and calm everyone's first day of school jitters.  Rich and I were both able to attend which was really nice and we had fun doing the classroom scavenger hunt with Joseph as he discovered different parts from his classroom.  I was definitely teary eyed walking into the classroom and seeing his desk with the nametag on it...just as Rich started to ask me if I was going to cry he caught me with tears welling up in my eyes but then I was ok!  He did great and jumped right into every one of the activities that Mrs. Clark had set up for them and did a great job of listening to the story that she read to them.  
 Listening to  Mrs. Clark read "Kindergarten Rocks" at the orientation.
Excited to be a Westwood Roadrunner!!
Mrs. Clark sent them home with a letter to open that night before bed and here it is...such a great idea!  Joseph totally got into it and sprinkled the glitter under his pillow and the next morning said that it helped him sleep!  I put the glitter back into the bag the following day but he has slept with the bag of glitter under the pillow all week long! 
 Tuesday, August 16th was the big first day!!  He woke up a little before 6:30, came down dressed and was so excited "I'm going to to kindergarten today!"  When Ella woke up, he reminded her that today was his first day of kindergarten, too!!
School starts at 7:55 with the gates opening at 7:40 so we left a little after 7:30 since I wasn't sure what parking was going to be like.  We are about a 1/2 mile from school but it is uphill and not really bike friendly so until we get it all figured out we are going to drive and park close to school and then walk him in-honestly, I was kind of dreading it-ya know, loading everyone up in the car to drive 1 minute and then load everyone out, but so far it really has worked out great.  I guess I feel like that since we have been spending about 20 minutes of time at school-by the time we walk in, get him to his line, walk back out-that it doesn't feel like such a waste of a drive.  Joseph has asked to ride his scooter so we may try that next week or we may wait until after the baby comes and once we get into more of a groove with Ella going to school, too, but for now this is working!

 Ella genuinely seemed really happy and excited for him!
 Just for the first day we were able to walk them into their classrooms.  Normally we can walk them into the playground and then can stay with them by their lines on the blacktop but can not go through the gates to the classrooms so it was nice to be able to walk to the room on the first day.  He hung up his backpack and then we walked in to the room.  The desks were covered with butcher paper to color on so at first he was a little confused since he couldn't find his name but once we figured out where it was, he was all good and I barely even got a good-bye.   I was able to control the tears today but am just SO proud of him!!
 We picked him up at 11:40 (the district does 1/2 day for the first 6 weeks and then will move to the full day schedule of 7:55-2:00 p.m.) and he was all smiles and said he had a great day and loved kindergarten!!  He told me that he wanted to go back tomorrow so I take that as a great sign!!  He was wearing this crown so that night I made him put it back on to take a picture with it!  Julia jumped in the pictures since she didn't get in on the action in the morning since we had to wake her up (three out of the four days I've had to wake her up at 7:25 to take him!)  It is an adjustment for everyone!!
 I put this note in his lunchbox on the first day and he came home and said to me, "I got your postcard and I liked it" so that has made me continue sending him with a little note each day. I wasn't planning on doing so but every day he has said something about it so figure I'll keep it up until he tells me to stop...
Thankfully the yogurt that I sent didn't explode all over the note!! Total rookie kindergarten mom fail!  I sent him with a frozen squeeze yogurt and he can't quite open them by himself so I cut it open and covered the top with aluminum foil but that didn't hold once it started to melt so there was yogurt all over his lunchbox!!  Oops!  Thankfully it didn't affect any of his food either but I don't think I'll be sending those anymore!
Off again!!  Second day of school!  Julia actually cried on the second and third  day of school when dropping him off-she started crying and saying "Butter, butter!"  (Brother, brother!) 
Joseph continued to be excited about school all week long, let's hope his enthusiasm continues all year long!!  He was definitely tired in the afternoon and was in bed earlier every night than the night before but up early in the mornings and excited to go back!  On Friday the school has a Friday Flag assembly outside that families are invited to stay for so the girls and I stayed to watch-they make announcements, do the pledge as a school, sing songs, and then do some sort of activity.  It was really cute and Joseph loved it.  I talked with Mrs. Clark on Friday afternoon and she told me that Joseph is just loving school.  She said that he has become friends with a lot of classmates already and is just really enjoying himself.  He has been talking all week about two boys so I told her that I knew he was feeling comfortable and like he had some buddies already.   He came home on Friday with a toy from the treasure chest for good behavior so I'd say the first week was definitely a success!!  We are looking forward to a great year-I'm sure it will come with its ups and downs but we are very thankful that it all has started out so smoothly!  

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

One month to go...

It is pretty hard to believe that in approximately one short month our family will grow again and we will be a family of 6!!!  Life will definitely be turned upside down for awhile but we are so excited to meet this little girl and to discover what our new normal is going to look like!  I have done an awful job of documenting this pregnancy (sorry baby girl) so will do a major recap now!!

I have felt really well this pregnancy.  Other than being very tired for the first trimester and experiencing food aversions during the first few months, I can't complain.  I am definitely starting to feel uncomfortable at times now but am still very active during the day, still working out 6 times a week either by walking or doing a strength training video and then keeping up with the kiddos.  We have definitely had a fun summer and haven't let this pregnancy stop me from doing anything!  I will nap occasionally now while Julia naps and the kids have quiet time but probably only about once a week and feel like it is more because I am not getting much sleep at night rather than just being tired from the day.  The nights are more annoying than anything right now as I bounce back and forth between the couch and our bed and basically sleep sitting up.  I am often awoken in the middle of the night by either heartburn/acid reflux or by having trouble breathing but am getting through it and know it can't last forever and that these long nights are just getting me ready for what's to come.

I haven't had any crazy cravings but my sweet tooth is definitely in full force and I can't say no to any type of dessert or sugary treat placed in front of me.  I try to have "healthier" options in the house but if something else is offered I won't turn it down.  My weight is a few pounds above than where it was with my other three pregnancies but only by a pound or two and  seems to fluctuate, but my stomach does feel a lot bigger, especially at this point but has consistently felt bigger throughout.  Over the last week I prepped 30 meals to be used in the crockpot.  I found a website with 30 healthy, pretty clean eating crockpot recipes that provided the entire grocery list and then the recipes for each.  I did all of the grocery shopping for them over the weekend and then spent the next five days prepping them-our freezer is now full and I am so thankful that we have the second refrigerator in the garage!  I have never done this before but with Joseph starting school and just adding one more human to this already chaotic family I figured it couldn't hurt.  Now we just have to hope that our freezer doesn't go out on us like it did last month!!

The kids are super excited and all three of them often rub my belly and kiss it.  Julia will say "baby" and rub my belly, and if you ask her what they baby is going to do she'll pretend to cry saying "wah wah wah" and then she'll pretend to rock a baby singing Rock a Bye Baby-so sweet!! (Oh and just for the record her singing of Rock a bye baby is not intelligible at all-it is more of a hum/her own words but to the correct tune!!) She definitely knows that something is happening though and will be so fun to see.  She does seem more aware of what is going on than Ella was when I was pregnant with Ella-those extra months make a difference.   We are still undecided as to what we are doing with the room situation once she comes-we are leaning towards having Julia go upstairs with Ella and having them share a room and then having the baby take Julia's room but will definitely keep her with us for a few months, I'm sure, so we still have some time to figure it out.  Julia is such  a great sleeper in her crib that I hate to make any changes right now so we are just going to wait it out and see what happens in the upcoming months.

We had an ultrasound on August 8th to monitor her growth and she looks great, although is definitely measuring big!  The doctor (not my normal doctor since for the ultrasounds I go to a specialist) estimated that she is already 8 pounds, 15 ounces and that she was measuring 37 weeks, 4 days so about 11 days ahead of my supposedly actual due date.  The doctor was funny and basically told me to go home and start doing jumping jacks and said that if my regular doctor checks me at my next appointment and if I am dilated then she would suggest induction immediately, so I don't have an 11 pound baby.  I am taking it all with a grain of salt since at all of my third trimester ultrasound I have always measured on the big side; however, none have been this big and what has me a bit concerned is that at my 20 week ultrasound I was also measuring about 10 days ahead.  One of the doctors recommended possibly changing my due date but my doctor didn't want to get my hopes up that I'd have the baby early so decided to keep my original due date, especially since I was pretty certain with my dates...we will see soon enough!!!!  Her heartbeat was 142 at the ultrasound and sounded strong and healthy!

We are still undecided on a name!  We have a list all with options that I like so Rich is in charge of ultimately deciding on it since he has in his head that I told him he could name baby #4 (which I totally don't remember doing but am fine with as long as he chooses a name from the list!!)

These aren't the best pictures-I guess I have never been real good about documenting my belly but I am 37.5 weeks with Julia (in the maroon skirt) and right around 37 weeks with Ella (middle) and Joseph (on the left). As I was looking for these pictures I came across my blog entry for Julia when I had an ultrasound at 36 weeks and she was estimated to be 7 lbs, 3 ozs!  Ok, so that scares me a bit considering when Julia was born, she weighed 8.15!!
And here I am at 35 weeks, 6 days with baby #4.  I'll have to try to remember to take a picture at 37 weeks so I can have one to compare a little better.  
The ultrasound tech couldn't get a good profile picture but did point out that she has a lot of hair!!  Can't wait to meet this sweet baby girl!  

10 years!!!

Rich and I celebrated our ten year wedding anniversary on July 21st!!  Ten years!!  Wow!  We had a really nice night out to celebrate-my parents took the kids overnight and we headed to Duke's in La Jolla since Duke's is where it all began with us!  It definitely didn't have the same feel as the one in Hawaii but it was still fun to be there and we enjoyed the complimentary hula pie to celebrate!  
And, the view was pretty magnificent, too!
After dinner we decided to go see the movie, Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates, which was set in Hawaii.  Since we couldn't take a trip to Hawaii for our ten year we just figured we'd do our best to recreate our own Hawaii here!  We are awful at taking pictures when it is just the two of us, so we didn't take any pictures of us on our anniversary, but here are two of my favorites from our journey.

The very first picture that we have of us together!  September 2003
Married!!  July 21, 2006
While at dinner we were reminiscing on our ten years and came up with this fun list of the past ten years. 
1-1 team, 1 team (our "motto" while he was in Afghsnishstan that was on our wedding rehearsal cake)
2- Ironman races (which are really the true testament to a strong marriage!)
3- states lived in
4 -(almost!) kids
5 -foreign countries visited
6 -minor disagreements (ha!  We couldn't come up with something for 6 so we went with this!)
7 -cars (doesn't that sound a bit excessive for just 10 years!?!)  
8 -trips to the ER (Joseph-3, Ella-2, Lisa-3)
9 -anniversaries celebrated (yes, only 9 anniversaries celebrated-Rich missed one!! We were on vacation with his family in the Outerbanks but still no excuse, right?!)  He made up for it the following year and thankfully I am the most forgiving person he knows-ha ha! 
10-years of marriage!!!  

We are so thankful to be on this journey together and love the life that we have created together and look forward to many, many, many more wonderful years together.  Love you, babe!  




Friday, August 5, 2016

July Fun!

Gosh, to think that July has come and gone is just so hard to believe!  But, to think that my trip to NY was just a few weeks ago also seems so hard to believe.  The remainder of July flew by but we got into a really nice routine of just enjoying life here at home and keeping busy and having fun.  The kids are all displaying that kissed by the sun glow and Ella and Julia most days have "pool hair, don't care!"  We've swam pretty much every single day and have had a lot of fun with family and friends.  We just love, love, LOVE summer!!! 
A little swimming with Poppa one afternoon.
 Joseph attended an outdoors type camp beginning on July 5th.  The camp was 3 weeks long but only 2 days a week-it was the perfect way to break up July!  After dropping him off every Tuesday and Thursday the girls and I would head to Lake Miramar so I could walk the 5 mile loop and then we always stayed to feed the ducks.  It was a nice little routine with the girls and I liked getting in a good walk during the week since normally I wait until the weekends to walk now.
 Joseph attended camp with two of his really good buddies from preschool and they had so much fun!  His shirt came home brown every time and he was soaked and filthy!
 Swimming with Sydney (and Cole) one day. Sweet cousins!!
 We've continued with our once a week get togethers with two other friends at the Westwood club which we always look forward to.
 I love how this picture captured Joseph and his buddy, Chase, talking under the water!  Such a fun summer for these boys!
 One night I found Joseph asleep here with the headphones and couldn't stop laughing!  I don't know if Ella was being too loud or what but definitely made me smile!
 Ella, of course, wanted to sleep close to him so she made her own bed at the other end of the hallway but she was wide awake still!
 We met up with a friend from preschool at the library for their exotic animal show and Joseph was called up as a volunteer which he thought was pretty cool.
 Another day at Lake Miramar feeding the ducks...or feeding Julia!!
 
 He was super excited about backwards day for camp!
 More fun at Lake Miramar.  Ella had been asking since we started going to ride her scooter so one day I let her.  She did great but was much slower than I normally like to walk and it probably would have taken us 2 hours to get around it!  She had a blast and was super proud of herself!
 She made it to the 1 1/4 mile marker before I was able to convince her to get into the stroller and enjoy the rest of the ride.
 The ducks were getting brave and really coming up close to us which was fun for the girls!
 Another week with friends at the club.
 This is normally what happens when I work out at home in the mornings!  We keep talking about purchasing new furniture for our family room, but I'm pretty certain we should wait a few more years and get all of the wear and tear out of the ones we have!!  I know I've mentioned before, but I have totally given up on having the kids staying off of the furniture-it just isn't worth my time!
 Julia has made so much progress this summer in the pool!  She loves jumping off of the side and prefers to swim without the puddle jumper (with an adult, of course) but will put her head under water and pretend to dive down.  If she jumps off the side and doesn't go under she will tell you, "under, under!"
 Daddy helping Joseph and Ella work on their dives.
Uncle Mark came to visit for a long weekend which was a blast!  We headed to La Jolla Shores for the day on Saturday the 16th.
 After the beach we went to Galaxy Tacos in La Jolla, which was delicious, and the kids loved the decor!
 Lots of pool time with Uncle Mark!
 On Sunday, Rich and Mark hiked Potato Chip Rock (Mt. Woodson) in the morning and then we headed to Coronado after Julia's nap.  We had an early dinner at Village Pizza, played on the beach for a little bit and then went to the concert in the park.
 Rich took Monday off so we hiked Torrey Pines that morning.  Ella continued her track record of not liking this hike so Rich just gave in and carried her (and Julia) the entire hike up to the top.  Once we were at the top, she was fine so she hiked the trail down and had a great time.  She just does NOT like the beginning!!
 Proud of his writing in the sand!
 Both Joseph and Ella love the boogie board!  Joseph is getting really strong on it and is confident to go out and ride them in by himself, which still makes me nervous so I like to have Rich or myself out there with him just in case but he seriously loves it!!
Ella loves it, too!!!  
 And, this girl is another beach babe!  She'd stay in the water all day, too!
 I had to include a few pictures that Ella took his month, of course!
 Daddy got in on the fun, too.
I love that Ella captures this face of Julia because she makes the craziest faces and will often just bust out with one of these crazy ones.  She is seriously so funny!  
 Another walk at Lake Miramar...Julia definitely loved feeding the ducks (or herself!) the best!
 Loved the time with these girls on Tuesdays/Thursdays during the month of July!!!
 Joseph, his buddies and his counselor (Kai) on the last day of camp.  We are so glad that we signed him up for this camp as he had such a great time!  For us, it was the perfect amount of time, too-kept him busy a few days of the week during July which was just great!
 And, back at the Westwood club with friends again!  We definitely had a pretty set routine this month which included camp, Lake Miramar, Westwood club, and lots of pool time!
It is so neat to watch the relationships form between Joseph and Julia and Ella and Julia.  Julia definitely loves them both, but also has a very different relationship with both of them.  She still can't say Joseph but in the past month or so has started calling him "butta" for "brother" which is just the cutest thing!  Her and Ella seem more like "friends" where they will play and then fight over petty things like a toy, etc.  where Joseph definitely takes on the big brother role and she seems to look up to him already even at such a young age and he really helps her out.  So sweet!  
Lately Julia's attention span has really improved and she will sit and play with a toy for quite a long time.  She especially seems to enjoy building with duplos but will even use the small legos to build with (thankfully she doesn't put things in her mouth!)  I caught her one day in the playroom sitting next to Joseph and Ella concentrating really hard on building something.  
After the weekend with Mark at the beach three days in a row, the boogey boards ended up in the backyard somehow and have now become the favorite pool toy!
 Joseph attempted riding the balance bike in the pool one day, too, but found out quickly that it didn't work so well.
 Poolside with this sweet girl!
 We had Sydney and Cole spend the night over one weekend and the neighbor boys came over to swim with everyone, too!
 We had plans to see Finding Dory with the Ozecks on Sunday at the base on Coronado so on Saturday night when they spent the night we watched Finding Nemo to get everyone excited about the movie the next day.  The kids did great the following day at the movies (the first time for our crew) and thanks to Uncle Dave for letting Julia fall asleep on him which made the movie more enjoyable for everyone!
 Julia kind of watched, kind of played!
 Sunday morning the boys started the morning off right with a little concert for everyone to enjoy!
 The girls playing dress up with my clothes!
 Joseph and Ella started swim lessons on July 25th at the Westwood club.  Even though they both know how to swim, the club offers levels that will work on strokes, etc. so we signed them up.  Ella was in level 3, and was the youngest in that level by a few years, and Joseph was in level 4.  Swim lessons were for 2 weeks, Monday-Thursday for 45 minutes so we have spent a lot of time there over the past two weeks.  The kids both loved it though and learned some new things and I've seen improvements in both of them so it was a great decision.  Ella was a little shy the first day but the coaches were really good with her.  On the second day, I was pretty sure we were going to have a meltdown because the one coach who really helped her the day before wasn't there and it was a male replacement-she started crying as they were stretching but by the time they were in the pool she was fine and did great and really warmed up to him by the end of the two weeks.  That is my only complaint though-I just wish there was more consistency with the coaches from her class-there was always one that she recognized but the second coach always rotated.
 Most days after lessons and then just swimming after we would pack a lunch and stay there to eat and play at the park area...and of course to hit up the snack bar for either otter pops or ice cream treats!
 
 The craziness (and cuteness) that happens while I work out (or try to at least!)
 This girl has mastered the jump off of the couch and will always say, "Mama look, mama look!"
 Hanging at the club after swim
 They have discovered the mini golf course at the club and have loved playing in it!  It is always empty while we are there so they just run around it and check it all out.
 On Tuesday the 26th, Rich was out of town and one of the libraries close by hosted a jump rope group to perform so we went to check it out.  The kids LOVED it!! The following day, Joseph and I were talking about joining the swim team next year and he said to me, "I think I want to jump rope instead!"  ha!
All of the kids got a chance to try it out!  Julia did, too, but I didn't get a picture of her. 
 Back in our pool with friends on the 27th!
 And, then back at the club on the 28th!
I would buy Julia the same ice cream as Ella normally and the strawberry shortcakes were definitely their favorite but I didn't want her to eat the whole thing so would always break off the top half-the first time she didn't notice but she started to catch on and would yell at me or start to cry about it!  You can't hide much from her anymore!  
 Pretending to share with me!
 A little nighttime swimming one night!
 We went to story time at the library on the last thursday of the month and I just love watching Julia there!  She totally loves it-well, maybe not so much the book part but loves the songs and the shakers!  She really pays attention to the librarian and follows along with all of the moves and will sing, too!
 A little welcome home wrestling with Daddy after he travelled for part of the last week in July.  The wrestling always begins with just Joseph and Rich but both girls are always quick to jump in on the fun!  You can see Julia underneath Rich in the middle of it all!
 To end out the month, this picture just had me cracking up!  On the last day of July I went for an early morning walk-Julia was still asleep when I left so on my walk Rich sent me this picture!  Definitely a resemblance there!
On top of all of the fun we've had, Rich has also been really busy at work in the yard.  We had the fence put in last month on the side yard so he's worked hard at painting it, putting together a shed, planting some trees and trying to clean up the front yard.  We are hoping by next month to have grass on the side yard and then the next project is to revamp the pool deck.  We love our home but there is definitely a never ending list of projects to be completed!!  
Looking forward to our last two weeks of summer in August and then gearing up for the first day of school on the 16th!!  We've had such an awesome summer!